Couples Massage
What couples massage is about
I see couples massage in 3 ways
- Where the couple can relax and distress together side by side getting a massage.
- Sensual Couples Massage is when you massage each other in a sensual way but not wanting to be sexual.
- Erotic Couples Massage is more sexual in nature.
As couples massage in not just about tactile touch for massage it also includes touching (massaging) there heart and mind with your word. So communicate with your partner and state what you would like to give and receive, e.g. pleasure, relaxation, stimulation on multiple levels, listen to there feedback with you as you massage, this is via words, moans, breathing, body movement, and facial expressions. Try not to get in to a discussion about it, just listen.
Massage towards the heart as this is in energetic terms the center of emotional energy.
The greatest sex organ is the mind, as it controls what meaning we attach to things, thus creating an emotional state, leading to a behavior. What this means the more your mind is turned on the more your body is. What meaning do you give to a hot guy/girl, what emotion does it provoke, what is you behavior consciously or not. The meaning of a naked women on my bed is different to one on my massage table, as a result my emotions are different and thus my behavior.
Couples Massage focuses on 3 areas for our intimate relationship being, and what the massage is to achieve in the areas.
- Mind/Emotional
Calms, express intimacy, care, respect and self-esteem- Body
Relaxation, pleasures, slow arousal, increase sex energy, sensually, increase libido- Soul/Spirit
Unite the mind and body, increase awareness, healing and nurturing, emotional harmony
What meaning do you want your touch to have, Touch can be via the 5 senses? Are you touching to calm, relax, comfort or excite?
- Touch them physical like a massage, a caress
- Touch them visual like candles, rose petals on a bed or floor.
- Touch them with sound like music, a bath running
- Touch them with smell can be fragrances, perfume, dinner.
- Touch them with taste like dinner, whip cream.
What emotion do you want to invoke?
- love
- excitement
- anticipation
- sensually
- peace
- calm,
- fun
What behavior do you want them to have?
- touch you back
- hold you
- want you
- experience you
In The Law of Attraction...What we focus on expands, what do, you want to focus on in the way of bonding a relationship. That's right; focus on your partner and their needs and wants right now